Introduction
- "Shepherding...The parent is the child's guide. This shepherding process helps a child to understand himself and the world in which he lives... help your child understand himself as a creature made by and for God. You cannot show him these things merely by instructions; you must lead him on a path of discovery. You must shepherd his thoughts, helping him to learn discernment and wisdom. This shepherding process is a richer interaction than telling your child what to do and think. It involves investing your life in your child in open and honest communication that unfolds the meaning and purpose of life...Values and spiritual vitality are not simply taught, but caught. Proverbs 13:20 says," He who walks with the wise becomes wise." As a wise parent your objestive is not simply to discuss, but to demostrate the freshness and vitality of life lived in integrity toward God and your family. Parenting is shepherding the hearts of your children in the ways of God's wisdom. " (pp.xxi)