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大卫·鲍力生（David Powlison)著

李台莺 吴贤礼 蒋虹嘉 译

真生命辅导传道会 出版

1. 你爱什么？恨什么？

2. 什么是你所要的、愿望的、渴求的、热望的、希望的？你服事及顺服那些欲望？

3. 你寻求什么？以什么为目标？追求什么？什么是你的目标和期望？

4. 你的盼望从何而来？

5. 你害怕什么？你不想要什么？什么是你容易忧虑的？

6. 你觉得想做什么？

7. 你认为你需要什么？什么是你“觉得的需要”？

8. 什么是你规划完成的计划、议题、策略和意图？

9. 什么使你来劲、生龙活虎？你的星球是绕着什么太阳在转？你在哪儿找到你的欢乐园地？什么照亮你的世界？你饮于什么样的生命、盼望、快乐源泉？什么食物维持你的生命？什么对你算回事？你在云上建构什么样的空中楼阁？什么白日梦惹逗着你或惊吓你？你的生命是环绕什么在打转？什么样的指针确定你世界的方向？

10. 你在哪里找到避难所、安全、安慰、逃避、快乐、安全感？

11. 你信靠什么活谁？

12. 谁的表现有重大关系？你世界的福祉妄置与谁的肩上？谁使它更好、使它发生作用、使它安全、使它成功？

13. 你必须取悦谁？你在乎谁的意见？你渴望从谁那得到肯定和害怕被拒绝？你以谁的价值体系来评估自己？你活在谁的眼中？你需要谁的爱和肯定？

14. 谁是你的模范角色？你认为你应该或想要成为什么样的人？

15. 在你临死之前，你生命的意义是以什么来总结？什么赋予你生命的意义？

16. 在任何特别情况中，你如何定义或取舍成功或失败，对或错，令人满意或不满意的？

17. 什么会使你觉得富有、安全、兴盛？你必须得到什么以便能使生命歌唱？

18. 什么会带给你最大满足、快乐、欢愉？什么带给你最大的痛苦和不幸？

19. 谁掌握政治力量能使万事变得更好？

20. 谁的得胜或成功会使你的生命快乐？你如何定义胜利和快乐？

21. 你把什么视为权利？你自觉有什么权利？

22. 在什么状况中你觉得有压力或紧张？自信而轻松？当你有压力时，你会转向哪儿？你怎么想？什么是你的避难物？你逃避什么？

23. 你想离开生命中的哪个部分？在  你所作的事中，你寻求什么样的结果？从做那件事中你得到什么？

24. 你为什么祷告？

25. 你最常想到什么？什么占住或纠缠你的心？每天早上你的心思本能地飘向什么？你的“心思意念”是怎样的？

26. 你都谈论些什么？什么对你是重要的？你所传递的是什么心态？

27. 你如何使用你的时间？什么是你的优先次序？

28. 不管愉快或可怕，什么是你的主要幻想？你的白日梦？你晚上做梦都是环绕些什么呢？

29. 什么是你起作用的信仰；它如何解释你的生命及控制你如何反应？

30. 什么是你的偶像或假神？你将你的信任或盼望放在哪里？你转向什么或寻求什么？哪里是你的避难所？谁是你的世界的救主、审判官、掌控者、供应者、保护者你服事谁？什么“声音”控制着你？

31. 你如何为自己而活？

32. 你如何活得像恶者的奴隶？

33. 你如何暗暗地说“但愿······” （来得到你所要的，避免你所不想要的，保有你已有的）？

34. 什么才是你本能地认为是对的或觉得是对的？什么观点、事情你觉得是真实的？

35. 你在哪儿找的你的身份？你如何定义你是谁？

Reference: http://blog.sina.com.cn/s/blog_abeb90ed0101c4sc.html

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David Powlison, “X-ray Questions” Seeing with New Eyes　

1. What do you love? Hate?
2. What do you want, desire, crave, lust, and wish for? What desires do you serve and obey?
3. What do you seek, aim for, and pursue?
4. Where do you bank your hopes?
5. What do you fear? What do you not want? What do you tend to worry about?

6. What do you feel like doing?
7. What do you think you need? What are your “felt needs”?
8. What are your plans, agendas, strategies, and intentions designed to accomplish?
9. What makes you tick? What sun does your planet revolve around? What do you organize your life around?
10. Where do you find refuge, safety, comfort, escape, pleasure, security?

11. What or whom do you trust?
12. Whose performance matters? On whose shoulders does the well-being of your world rest? Who can make it better,make it work, make it safe, make it successful?
13. Whom must you please? Whose opinion of you counts? From whom do you desire approval and fear rejection? Whose value system do you measure yourself against? In whose eyes are you living? Whose love and approval do you need?
14. Who are your role models? What kind of person do you think you ought to be or want to be?
15. On your deathbed, what would sum up your life as worthwhile? What gives your life meaning?

16. How do you define and weigh success and failure, right or wrong, desirable or undesirable, in any particular situation?

17. What would make you feel rich, secure, prosperous? What must you get to make life sing?
18. What would bring you the greatest pleasure, happiness, and delight? The greatest pain or misery?
19. Whose coming into political power would make everything better?
20. Whose victory or success would make your life happy? How do you define victory and success?

21. What do you see as your rights? What do you feel entitled to?

22. In what situations do you feel pressured or tense? Confident and relaxed? When you are pressured, where do you turn? What do you think about? What are your escapes? What do you escape from?
23. What do you want to get out of life? What payoff do you seek out of the things you do?
24. What do you pray for?
25. What do you think about most often? What preoccupies or obsesses you? In the morning, to what does your mind drift instinctively?

26. What do you talk about? What is important to you? What attitudes do you communicate?

27. How do you spend your time? What are your priorities?
28. What are your characteristic fantasies, either pleasurable or fearful? Daydreams? What do your night dreams revolve around?
29. What are the functional beliefs that control how you interpret your life and determine how you act?

30. What are your idols and false gods? In what do you place your trust, or set your hopes? What do you turn to or seek? Where do you take refuge?

31. How do you live for yourself?

32. How do you live as a slave of the devil?
33. How do you implicitly say, “If only . . .” (to get what you want, avoid what you don’t want, keep what you have)?
34. What instinctively seems and feels right to you? What are your opinions, the things you feel true?
35. Where do you find your identity? How do you define who you are?

Reference: http://andynaselli.com/x-ray-questions

Sample: http://www.wtsbooks.com/common/pdf_links/9780875526089.pdf