People tend to lose their happiness amid pursuing their desires; lose their health amid being busily occupied; lose their trust amid being in doubt; lose their friendship amid being calculating.
Once one is not in dispute, one will become happy and gay all over; once one is not competing, one will enjoy smooth sailing all the voyage; one is not in overly earnest pursuit, one will have a peaceful and quiet life.
Everyone has his own way of living and there is no need to pattern after the life of others. Others who may appearing enjoying a relatively glorious living may shed their tears behind their backs. And others who may look like living in poverty may live an elegant and gracious life.
There is no standard answer for happiness. There are more than one way to leading to joyfulness. It is advisable to look your inner self rather than casting admiring eyes at others. The days you like are the best possible days for you. The ways of living you enjoy are the best possible ways of living for you.
Unknowingly, we all grow old. We should take a rest when we feel tired. Health is all important. When we feel drowsy, we should go to bed and should not sit up late. When we feel hungry, we should eat and do not skimp. Life is short and can be compared to a twinkle of eyes. It is not advisable to keep good things to the last. One saves here and there and one ends up gaining nothing.
Do not compete or compare with those inferior to you. Do not become angry with your family folks. Do not make life difficult for ourselves. As we live, we should live everyday happily and enjoyably. We should not take to heart or listen to any trifling matters or pointless gossips.